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Kim Fast married for the primary time at 51. On this episode, you’ll hear in regards to the steps she took to go on her final first date!

Kim Fast was 40, by no means married and trapped in a cycle of courting unemotionally out there males. Decided to interrupt this sample, she found the important thing causes she hadn’t discovered her real love YET, took motion, and located her wonderful real love and married on the age of 51. She now shares this confirmed system with 1000s of girls who’re having success to find their real love, too.

Married for the First Time at 51

Inform us about your romantic journey, being 51 and getting married for the primary time.

I wished to get married, and I had tried every thing I believed was proper. I dated males who didn’t need a dedication. I went on a quest to find what the issue was. I checked out my childhood and uncovered beliefs about relationships. One was that I wasn’t essential. I attracted males who didn’t make me essential.

I additionally realized methods to step extra absolutely into my female. I took a break, went again on-line, and met my husband two weeks later. He treats me like a queen! We’ve been collectively for ten years, married for 5. 

What are the 2 prime issues getting in the best way of girls discovering love?

  1. The idea that we’re flawed as a result of we’re older, and males solely need youthful ladies.
  2. Concern and anxiousness about courting 

What are the 4 secrets and techniques to find and courting high quality males on-line?

  1. Do the inside work to uncover your blind spots and limiting beliefs
  2. Be clear about what you need in a person and relationship
  3. Know the indicators of a person who’s out there for a long-lasting relationship…inside just a few dates. 
  4. Learn to say no and ask for what you need…and see how he responds

What are a very powerful inquiries to ask your self to find out if a person’s best for you?

  1. Does he respect your emotions and wishes?
  2. Is he persistently asking you out and calling?
  3. Are you having enjoyable?
  4. Is he financially secure?
  5. Is he trustworthy?

Are you able to share a narrative of a shopper who reworked?

A 71-year-old widower got here to me. She had been single for 4 years, had been on 5 on-line courting websites, however she couldn’t discover love. We uncovered one among her beliefs, which is that she was too outdated. She had been settling for the improper males. 

By our work collectively, she discovered love.

What are your remaining phrases of recommendation for anybody who desires to go on their final first date?

Don’t hand over hope. Persevere. And do the inside and outer work. 

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